Things don't stay the same, this is a fact of life. But why? What changes, or a better question, who changes?

Life is an amazing thing, you sometimes get these down to earth opportunities that arise in which you can grow as an individual, expand your horizons and build stronger relationships. I feel that the problem comes in when people, friends or family, grow at different rates. I was bewildered tonight when I spent some time with old friends just to see on what different levels we are functioning. It seems that most of them are still pretty much equal with each other? Yet, I wish I could say the same for me. We are at such different places in our lives that I struggle to connect with them, let alone manage a conversation.

It seems that they have decided on a way how to deal with life and stopped looking for alternatives. This is not me, will never be me and for the life of me will never be good enough! I struggle to comprehend how they are so complacent in their relationships when I see red lights flashing for imminent conflict? I wish to understand them better because I need to learn the path that I don't want to follow.

How people hang on to habits, hang on to that sense of comfort in the expected, astounds me. There is so much better- more positive, more fulfilling, more you...

Break free people.